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Things to consider before deciding on a cross-cultural wedding

This site has been getting quite a few hits lately, particularly the post on How to register a marriage between a Nepali and a foreigner. That post was about something that we did AFTER the wedding. But prior to that, we had to get married first. And it took countless lengthy discussions for us to… Continue reading Things to consider before deciding on a cross-cultural wedding

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HOW TO: Marriage Registration in Nepal for a Nepali and a Foreigner (Part 1)

This was one of the major things that Scott and I had to figure out prior to getting married but a quick internet search did not really turn up anything detailed enough to be of any help. So I’m writing this now, with as much detail as I can muster, in the hope that it… Continue reading HOW TO: Marriage Registration in Nepal for a Nepali and a Foreigner (Part 1)

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A Journal for Brides-to-be

The Bare Bride Journal is the brainchild of Sharon Leucke of the The Bare Bride. I can’t remember how I stumbled upon her website, but I did so within days of its launch, and I included it in my previous post on alternative wedding websites. The core message of The Bare Bride is to pay more… Continue reading A Journal for Brides-to-be

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Marriage Planning Part 2: Love Languages

Like that online counseling thing I wrote about here, figuring out our love language was my idea. The Five Love Languages was conceptualized by Gary Chapman after years as a marriage counselor. Disclaimer: He wrote a book about this but I didn’t read it. Some people took issues with how oversimplified the sample situations featured in… Continue reading Marriage Planning Part 2: Love Languages

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Marriage Planning Part 1: Conversations Before Marriage

So Scott and I did something really cool over the weekend. We signed up on in this website that facilitates conversations between couples, on things that should ideally be discussed before getting married. Actually, he signed up yesterday. I signed up earlier, and urged him to do the same. I’m hesitant to call it counseling because… Continue reading Marriage Planning Part 1: Conversations Before Marriage