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Division of chores in our household

When we were in Nepal, Scott’s aunty remarked that I was lucky that my husband helps me out with the household chores because her husband doesn’t. They seemed to have this unspoken agreement that uncle would do his job to support the family’s financial needs but everything related to running the household would be aunty’s… Continue reading Division of chores in our household

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Forbidden love: A tale of cross-cultural partnership

This is not a surprise. If you’re a foreigner and your partner is Nepali, there’s a good chance that your prospective in-laws did not exactly jump for joy upon finding out about your existence. Scott and I have discussed this many times, trying to imagine worst-case scenarios, long before we told both of our parents… Continue reading Forbidden love: A tale of cross-cultural partnership

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Meeting my South Asian parents-in-law for the first time

In my previous blog post, I recounted the events leading up to Scott’s admission to his parents about our relationship. In this post, I will pick up where I left off and talk about the first time I met my future parents-in-law. While there are common themes in many cross-cultural relationships (opposition from family, strict… Continue reading Meeting my South Asian parents-in-law for the first time

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Telling South Asian parents about your cross-cultural relationship: This is our story

You might be wondering why is this even a thing. Most of the time it’s not. But if you’re in a relationship with a South Asian person, then it most likely will be a thing, if it isn’t already. A quick Google search will point you to the most popular blog posts and reddit discussions… Continue reading Telling South Asian parents about your cross-cultural relationship: This is our story

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State Of the MArriage (Mo 8,Yr 1)

This is what marriage looks like, at the moment. We’ve been married for more than half a year now, but have only lived together by ourselves for the past two months or so. And this past few months have been crucial in establishing what our marriage would be like outside of the direct influence of… Continue reading State Of the MArriage (Mo 8,Yr 1)